Unlocking Radiance 💖: Simple Ways to Create a Safe Space for Everyone

Hello dear Shiny Minds!😍

I need to tell you a significant truth.💁🏻

Have you ever thought about how you can improve your interactions to be stronger, safer, and just better? 🤔

Who doesn't want to build trust and safety in their relationships? 😊
You're going to love this! 

Anyway, let's talk about it today.

STEP 1: ❌ STOP IGNORING OTHERS' POINTS OF VIEW (POV). 

Have you ever felt like you were brushed off? 

It doesn't feel good. 🙁

☝ Rule number one: stop ignoring other people's points of view. 

It's important whether you know it or not. 🚫

People feel unsafe when you brush them off, and what you say matters. ☹️

Don't forget that everyone has the right to their own thoughts and feelings. 🤔 

STEP 2: ❌ STOP CRITICIZING FASHION STYLES.

Each of us has our own style.💇

It's possible that they're more reasonable than you? That's great.

🙅 Don't criticize people for being the way they are. 

Criticizing and judging people makes them protective, which sets off their survival mode. 😶

Don't do it; it doesn't build trust. 🚫

STEP 3: ❌ QUIT “TELLING” PEOPLE THINGS.

You know that nobody likes being told what to do.

🙅 Don't tell people what to do or say.

It turns on their amygdala, which is the brain area that controls survival. 😕

This makes them feel constantly threatened or dangerous.

Instead, make sure they feel like they are being heard and understood. 👂

STEP 4: ✅ ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE ACCEPTED.

What is the secret word? Getting along. 🙌

Be okay with who you are and who other people are. 

It's not simple, but it changes everything. 🤞

Don't forget that you are the first person who can change things. 🚫

Accept your flaws and be willing to forgive others.

This sets the tone for making yourself and those around you feel safe. 🥰

To sum up, building trust means valuing other people's points of view, accepting their unique ways, resisting the urge to tell them what to do, and practicing acceptance. 💫

Believe me, it's worth the work. 

Let's fix things, one friendship at a time. 💞

Keep shining! ✨

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more #love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds in it...

by Shiny Burcu Unsal ✨

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