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Unlocking Radiance ๐Ÿ’–: Simple Ways to Create a Safe Space for Everyone

Jan 10, 2024

Hello dear Shiny Minds!๐Ÿ˜

I need to tell you a significant truth.๐Ÿ’๐Ÿป

Have you ever thought about how you can improve your interactions to be stronger, safer, and just better? ๐Ÿค”

Who doesn't want to build trust and safety in their relationships? ๐Ÿ˜Š
You're going to love this! 

Anyway, let's talk about it today.

 

STEP 1: โŒ STOP IGNORING OTHERS' POINTS OF VIEW (POV). 

Have you ever felt like you were brushed off? 

It doesn't feel good. ๐Ÿ™

โ˜ Rule number one: stop ignoring other people's points of view. 

It's important whether you know it or not. ๐Ÿšซ

People feel unsafe when you brush them off, and what you say matters. โ˜น๏ธ

Don't forget that everyone has the right to their own thoughts and feelings. ๐Ÿค” 

 

STEP 2: โŒ STOP CRITICIZING FASHION STYLES.

Each of us has our own style.๐Ÿ’‡

It's possible that they're more reasonable than you? That's great.

๐Ÿ™… Don't criticize people for being the way they are. 

Criticizing and judging people makes them protective, which sets off their survival mode. ๐Ÿ˜ถ

Don't do it; it doesn't build trust. ๐Ÿšซ

 

STEP 3: โŒ QUIT “TELLING” PEOPLE THINGS.

You know that nobody likes being told what to do.

๐Ÿ™… Don't tell people what to do or say.

It turns on their amygdala, which is the brain area that controls survival. ๐Ÿ˜•

This makes them feel constantly threatened or dangerous.

Instead, make sure they feel like they are being heard and understood. ๐Ÿ‘‚

 

STEP 4: โœ… ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE ACCEPTED.

What is the secret word? Getting along. ๐Ÿ™Œ

Be okay with who you are and who other people are. 

It's not simple, but it changes everything. ๐Ÿคž

Don't forget that you are the first person who can change things. ๐Ÿšซ

Accept your flaws and be willing to forgive others.

This sets the tone for making yourself and those around you feel safe. ๐Ÿฅฐ

 

To sum up, building trust means valuing other people's points of view, accepting their unique ways, resisting the urge to tell them what to do, and practicing acceptance. ๐Ÿ’ซ

Believe me, it's worth the work. 

Let's fix things, one friendship at a time. ๐Ÿ’ž

Keep shining! โœจ

 

Made with love โค๏ธ for a better world with more #love โค๏ธ and #ShinyMinds in it...

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