Unlocking Radiance 💖: Simple Ways to Create a Safe Space for EveryoneJan 10, 2024
Hello dear Shiny Minds!😍
I need to tell you a significant truth.💁🏻
Have you ever thought about how you can improve your interactions to be stronger, safer, and just better? 🤔
Who doesn't want to build trust and safety in their relationships? 😊
You're going to love this!
Anyway, let's talk about it today.
STEP 1: ❌ STOP IGNORING OTHERS' POINTS OF VIEW (POV).
Have you ever felt like you were brushed off?
It doesn't feel good. 🙁
☝ Rule number one: stop ignoring other people's points of view.
It's important whether you know it or not. 🚫
People feel unsafe when you brush them off, and what you say matters. ☹️
Don't forget that everyone has the right to their own thoughts and feelings. 🤔
STEP 2: ❌ STOP CRITICIZING FASHION STYLES.
Each of us has our own style.💇
It's possible that they're more reasonable than you? That's great.
🙅 Don't criticize people for being the way they are.
Criticizing and judging people makes them protective, which sets off their survival mode. 😶
Don't do it; it doesn't build trust. 🚫
STEP 3: ❌ QUIT “TELLING” PEOPLE THINGS.
You know that nobody likes being told what to do.
🙅 Don't tell people what to do or say.
It turns on their amygdala, which is the brain area that controls survival. 😕
This makes them feel constantly threatened or dangerous.
Instead, make sure they feel like they are being heard and understood. 👂
STEP 4: ✅ ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE ACCEPTED.
What is the secret word? Getting along. 🙌
Be okay with who you are and who other people are.
It's not simple, but it changes everything. 🤞
Don't forget that you are the first person who can change things. 🚫
Accept your flaws and be willing to forgive others.
This sets the tone for making yourself and those around you feel safe. 🥰
To sum up, building trust means valuing other people's points of view, accepting their unique ways, resisting the urge to tell them what to do, and practicing acceptance. 💫
Believe me, it's worth the work.
Let's fix things, one friendship at a time. 💞
Keep shining! ✨
Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more #love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds in it...
by Shiny Burcu Unsal ✨
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