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Dec 12, 2023

Hello dear Shiny Minds!😍

Today we're going to talk about  4 Levels Of Consciousness 💬

What they are and why they're important for you. 

The problem with not knowing the level of your consciousness can show up as ignorance.

When I look at my experience working with people in my coaching and training business over a decade now. I see that it's all about the level of consciousness.

We are all human beings.

We make mistakes and we learn and we grow with our mistakes.

The important thing is to always and always and always upgrade, up level and elevate, ⬆️ the level of our consciousness.

I am going to talk about four levels of consciousness, but always we have more, even teeny tiny learning that you implement, you integrate into your everyday life.

It just elevates your consciousness, teeny tiny thoughts, teeny tiny beliefs, teeny tiny changes that you make in your everyday life, they improve the level of your consciousness.

I'm going to talk about four (4) of them today so that they can guide you, they can give you a structure of how you can think about your own level of consciousness and how you can improve your level. 


You need to certainly watch out for this one because this is the belief of that very first level of consciousness.

Life happens to me. 

So it's basically like, you have no effect.

You have no power. You have no control over life.

You are the end result. You are the effect of life.

Everything happens to you and that also puts you in this place of victimhood where you start talking about Complaints, blames, the embarrassments, the shame that you have, the hopelessness, the helplessness, the guilt, shall I go on.

I guess you can relate. All the fear and anxiety and doubt and worry.

This is the very first level.

This level needs to be caught, needs to be transformed, needs to be elevate it immediately to the second level. 



Why is this the responsibility?

Because now you have empowerment. Now you have courage.

Life happens for me. 

Now you have tapped into your own self control.

Now you can say, "I got this. I'm not the effect of life. I'm the cause."

"I'm going to make it happen, I'm gonna take action and I'm not gonna give up."

This is a total different mindset. 💭

Can you tell?

I'm sure you can see the difference between life happens to me and life happens for me.

Mentalities, because in here, how can you spot if you are in the responsible mindset and consciousness, you're going to have self regulation, you're going to have empowerment, you're going to have motivation, you're going to have control.

You might have even a little bit too much control.

That's how you can spot.

If you find yourself trying to control everyone and everything, if you find yourself making decisions on behalf of other people, even before they ask you to, then you're a bit too responsible.



Next level you can rise up is gonna happen only when you're able to let go of that excessive control. 

Remember the number two, when you're able to let go of that too much control, now you rise up to the life happens through me place that I call flow.

This consciousness level, if you ask my opinion, is the second best, of course.

Most of the time, if you are able to live in this beautiful place, what does that mean through me?

Which means that you're not blocking anything.

You are just this transparent, authentic place. Like you're just like water.


Life just flows through you. You don't resist nothing.

You don't try to argue. You don't try to win.

You don't try to become right. Everybody is right.

Everybody has their own place. I'm okay. I'm just letting it go.

So when you're able to let go, when you're able to forgive and forget, when you're able to surrender, when you're able to dance with life, now you know you're in flow of level of consciousness. 



I am the co-creator of my life.

If you paid attention, the first two, life happens to me and life happens for me, levels of consciousness, they were both detached from life itself.

Life was something that's happening to me or for me, but this is something away from me.

I'm not that, right? So, the last two.

Life happens through me is not including you in it.

This one, this top one, you're not only included, but you're a part of creating it.

So that is the ultimate place to be when you're able to say, I am.

And as you know, by now, I'm sure you have seen it from other resources.

I am, they are the most powerful words that you can ever say to yourself, because whatever follows it becomes your reality.

When you are able to co create your life, when you become the writer, the actress and the director of your own life. It's a totally new game.

How do you spot if you are here?

This is a place of consciousness where you are one with everything.

You not only integrate different parts of disciplines and perspectives about life, but you're also able to connect with objects, nature, animals, the little things, the air, the food.

So, you are one. It's everything and you are a part of it and you are responsible as much as other things. You are also responsible to create.

The happenings of your life. You create your own reality.

Makes sense? I hope it does.


So once again, let's wrap up the four states, four levels of consciousness again:

1. Life happens to me.

2. Life happens for me.

3. Life happens through me.

4. I am the co-creator of my life.

So, I hope this served you. I hope you enjoyed. ❤️

 And if you like this blog, please share it with others so they also become aware of their levels of consciousness.

And remember, life is a beautiful game that you get to play on your own terms successfully and joyfully. And it is your time to unlock your true potential to become who you're meant to be.

So that together, we can make it a better place, with more love and shiny minds. 


Made with love ❤️ for a better world, with more #love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds.

by Shiny Burcu Unsal



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