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3 Reasons Why Men Shut Down

Feb 11, 2021

We are only 3 days away from the world's most romantic day: Valentine's Day.

In my opinion, Valentine's Day is a day that's dedicated to all the lovers in the world, including your own love for your beautiful self. It's the day we all pause and think and celebrate the existence and the importance of LOVE ❤️ in our lives.

And again, this love doesn't have to be the love of someone else, it might as well be the love of our beautiful self for our beautiful self. The idea is LOVE. ❤️ 

And for that reason, today in my Shiny Blog, I would love to talk about love and share some insights about the differences between feminine and masculine energy so that we can all better understand the dynamics of our romantic relationships and specifically why men shut down in their relationships.

To begin with, let's look at the differences between masculine and feminine energy:


Wants to be loved                             Wants freedom

Wants to be owned                           Wants freedom

Makes small things big                     Makes big things small

Hangs on to things                            Let's go   

Remembers                                        Forgets

Wants to be understood                  Wants to be appreciated

Wants to fill up the emptiness        Wants to empty out

Stimulated by praise                         Stimulated by a good challenge


And now, let's talk about 3 reasons why men shut down. Ready?

Let's go!

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by Shiny Burcu Unsal




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