EPISODE 58

SEASON 5

Why Detachment Is the Secret to Getting Everything You Want

I want to tell you something that might surprise you.

The reason you’re not getting what you want is not because you don’t want it badly enough.
It’s because you are too attached to it.

Detachment and attachment are the two pillars of how we relate to life.
How you attach to people is how you attach to money.
How you attach to love is how you attach to your dreams.
How you attach to control is how you attach to your future.

And your attachment style was formed when you were a child.

In psychology, we talk about four attachment styles:
• Anxious — worried, controlling, always afraid of losing
• Avoidant — emotionally distant, afraid of vulnerability
• Fearful-avoidant — hot and cold, unstable, unpredictable
• Secure — grounded, safe, present, trusting

Your attachment style determines how safe your nervous system feels in the world.

And when your nervous system does not feel safe…
Your amygdala takes over.
And the amygdala is a survival machine — not a manifestation machine.

It wants control.
It wants certainty.
It wants to hold on.

That is why you become too attached to:
• Your opinions
• Your way of doing things
• Your relationships
• Your goals

And that attachment turns into pressure.
Pressure turns into resistance.
And resistance kills magic.


Why Detachment Activates the Quantum Field

We live in a quantum field — a world of infinite possibility.

But quantum physics responds to intention, not control.

When you set a goal with certainty — and then let it go — the universe organizes itself around it.

It’s just like entering an address into your GPS.

You enter it once.
You don’t keep re-typing it.
You don’t keep checking if it’s right.

You trust it.

Then you simply focus on the next step.

That is detachment.

And that is why detachment is the fastest path to manifestation.

Keep shining,

by Dr. Shiny Burcu Unsal ✨


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I’m passionate about helping people step into their fullest potential and live a life that truly shines. As the host of The Shiny Minds Show, I’m here to guide you on a journey of self-empowerment, personal growth, and embracing the brilliance that’s already within you.

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